So on this forum I think there will be a bias towards the 9ths, and if you go on the 8th gen forum, there will be a bias towards 8th gens.
So I'll tell you this, my honest opinion, the 8th gen si is probably the last TRUE Honda civic si ever made. A FWD, high revving 8k redline doesn't make jack shit power until vtec kicks, and also a lightweight car, which essentially is what an Si should be. The K20 is a beautiful engine and I mean beaaaaaaaautiful, you will want to stay up in the high RPMS simply just to hear the vtec engagement over and over again because it's like music to your ears lol. It's a race motor just waiting to be modified, like it wants you to beat on it, it wants you to mod it, because it's just such a tune-able engine.
The 9th gens on the other hand is a far better daily with it's updated driver oriented interior, back up camera, side camera, heated seats etc., though many people consider the k24z7 to be a economy engine for whatever reason. OH and there's no annoying 2nd to 3rd gear grind which is notorious in the 8th gens. You still get a LSD stock and a huge aftermarket support, and the option to swap a RBC intake manifold to revive that 8K redline.
If you go on reddit, or watch reviews on youtube, a lot of car reviewers and even Honda enthusiasts will say the same thing, and usually always ends with the conclusion that the 8ths are better for track, whilst the 9ths are better dailies. However, the 9ths are capable of making pretty damn good power, but the 8ths are more preferred for bolt-ons, as apparently bolt-on v bolt-on, an 8th will beat a 9th. Now whether that's true or not, I think both cars are very close together when it comes to a straight line race, but that just shows how good the 8ths are, as a 2009 Si with 197hp/139tq can keep up with a 2014 Si with 205/174tq. Why is that? Well the 8ths are lighter, and make its peak torque in the high rpms where when racing, you'll be up in the high rpms most of the time. The 9ths make peak torque around 4-5k rpms and it dips after that. Side note: Now these are just what I've read awhile ago from other users around other forms so my numbers may not be entirely accurate, but the K20 is no joke that's for sure.
Would I choose an 8th over my 9th? Helllll naaaah, I prefer the looks of the 9th. especially the sedan and the mid range torque really makes daily driving easier. I believe the 9th fits your needs. You want a good daily, aftermarket friendly, good gains from bolt-ons, forced induction kits readily available, and huge modding community, the 9th fits your needs. If you plan on gutting a car, want to spend less on the car overall, then get the 8th. It's far cheaper because it's older, and you'll likely find more used parts floating around.